Monastery Etiquette Rules

Bhutanese dzongs and monasteries are living religious sites, not museums. Behavior that seems benign elsewhere (sitting on a bench facing a wall, pointing at a statue, taking a photo of a monk) can be offensive here. This page gives the specific rules, with severity and reason for each.

Filter by severity

Rule	Severity	Why

What this solves

Most guidebooks mention dress code and remove shoes. They don't tell you that feet pointing at the altar is the most offensive single thing you can do. This page sorts rules by severity and explains the "why."

How to use the table

Serious — actively offensive. Will be corrected.
Moderate — culturally inappropriate. May be tolerated but noted.
Minor — acceptable but more polite alternative exists.

Limitations

Specific monasteries may add rules. When in doubt, ask your guide.
Caretakers can enforce stricter rules during ceremonies.

FAQ

Is it OK to take a selfie with a monk?

Ask first. Some monks decline. Avoid selfies without permission — they feel awkward to monks.

Can I donate money?

Yes — small amounts in the offering box. Don't hand money to a monk directly.

Sources

Bhutan monastic body — monastery visitor guidelines